May I Have Your Attention Please
When we communicate, we hope for spontaneous, effortless engagement. In some situations, attention is not just helpful—it can mean the difference between life and death.
No matter how clearly organized your lesson, speech, or sermon may be or how well it is supported with illustrations and material, it will not be effective unless your audience listens with focused attention. When we communicate, we hope for spontaneous, effortless engagement. In some situations, attention is not just helpful—it can mean the difference between life and death.
The challenge of gaining and maintaining attention is not new. Consider how television producers use the “cliffhanger” to keep viewers coming back week after week. We often describe a show or movie as “slow,” which usually means we are losing interest. If something meaningful does not happen soon, our attention fades, and we shift our focus elsewhere.
Distractions constantly compete for our attention.
We are repeatedly warned not to text and drive—and for good reason. Millions of accidents each year are linked to distracted driving. According to estimates from the National Safety Council, approximately 1.6 million crashes annually involve cell phone use or texting. Additionally, over 3,000 people die each year in distracted driving accidents.
Do we truly feel the need to pay attention?
When I served as a youth director, one of our students had a parent who was a former Navy SEAL instructor. He explained that SEAL candidates—sometimes called “tadpoles”—pay very close attention when they know they are about to be deployed into dangerous situations. However, when there is no immediate threat, attentiveness often declines. When the stakes are life and death, urgency sharpens focus.
What Is Affecting Our Ability to Pay Attention?
Research suggests that our ability to initiate and maintain attention is declining. According to a 2024 report from Samba Recovery, the average human attention span is now approximately 8.2 seconds—shorter than that of a goldfish (9 seconds). While this statistic mainly reflects initial attention in highly distracting environments (such as scrolling or switching tabs), it highlights a growing concern.
The good news is that sustained attention is still possible. People can often focus for 15–20 minutes or longer on meaningful or important tasks—especially with training and discipline.
If those statistics are accurate, many readers may not have made it this far.
To test this theory, about ten years ago, I intentionally inserted a hidden message into an article about Christian education that was sent to over 100 school families: “If you read this, the first person to contact me will receive a gift card to Amazon.” Within an hour, one person responded. They received the prize. In the days following publication, only two others contacted me. Interestingly, as word spread about my ploy, it motivated more people to read future communications more carefully—just in case I tried it again. What began as a test became a short-lived motivation. Maybe I will try it again sometime.
Some studies suggest a simple guideline for children’s attention spans: multiply their age by 2 to 3 minutes. For example, an eight-year-old may focus for 16–24 minutes under normal conditions. Attention also varies by individual, and some research suggests differences in impulsivity and distraction patterns between genders. Males are more likely to lose focus more quickly than females.
It is clear that marketing and media industries have adapted quickly to this research, delivering messages within shrinking attention windows.
The Role of Technology
One of the most significant contributors to declining attention is increased screen time.
Cognitive function is closely tied to focus. Excessive screen exposure appears to weaken the ability to concentrate on a single task for extended periods. In the early 2000s, the average person could focus on a screen for about 2.5 minutes before switching tasks. Today, that number is often closer to 47 seconds.
As digital device usage increases, attention often decreases.
Many people report that constant technology use negatively impacts their mental health. Some studies suggest that excessive screen time may contribute to attention-related challenges, particularly among teenagers. Research indicates that there are links between the release of endorphins called dopamine and screen use, which can contribute to addictive behaviors.
While short attention span statistics often reflect susceptibility to distraction—not a fixed limit—they still reveal an important truth: attention must now be cultivated intentionally.
A Culture of Constant Stimulation
Consider the environment students are growing up in today:
- Children receive smartphones at an increasingly younger age. In an article in Education Week (July 2025). “About one-third of kids who have a smartphone got their first device at 10 years old, while 19% said they got their first smartphone at 11, and 12% said they did at 12. Put together, almost two-thirds of kids got their first smartphone when they were 12 or younger.”
- Tablets and screens consume quiet moments in public and at home. Careful observation reveals that more parents occupy their young children with screens while shopping, at home, or while traveling in cars.
- Gaming systems provide hours of immersive entertainment. It is very popular to give a gaming system as a gift to teens. Statistics show that teens disappear into their rooms for up to 3 hours a day to play video games. It has become a constant problem for teens to pay attention in class when they stay up all night playing games while their parents sleep.
- Screens often replace face-to-face conversation. It has become commonplace to see people walking with their attention glued to their smartphones. Families sit across the table from each other and text instead of talking or engaging in discussion. The future concern is that the next generation will lack the ability to communicate without a digital device.
- Classrooms rely heavily on digital tools and media. Most schools provide iPads or Chromebooks for students to do classwork or research projects. It has become a substitute for textbooks and workbooks. One student confessed that it is much easier to highlight a question, paste it into Google, copy the answer, and paste it into the text.
- Many courses are fully online. To accommodate busy lifestyles, many colleges now offer fully online degree programs. In addition, high school students are encouraged to take dual credit courses (for both high school and college credit) online.
- Smartphones dominate daily life. If you have ever misplaced your smartphone, you understand the absolute panic that sets in when you suffer from separation anxiety. Digital devices can now handle many everyday tasks: calculators, cameras, video, dictation, research, gaming, communication, etc.
- AI tools can bypass the learning process and deliver instant results. The concern for most educators is that learning how to learn is being replaced by the results created by artificial intelligence. The advancements are multiplying daily.
Technology is not going away—and it can be a tremendous tool. However, like all powerful tools, it requires discipline. We are raising a generation surrounded by constant stimulation, yet often lacking sustained focus.
Gaining attention has become increasingly more difficult.
I remember a college professor who emphasized the importance of capturing attention. On one occasion, he stood on top of his desk to teach. Another time, he spoke from underneath it, pretending to be Jonah in the belly of the whale.
That was over 40 years ago, and I still remember it. Would those methods work today? Perhaps—but even those techniques are no match against today’s distractions.
Attention Is Deliberate
Both Scripture and communication research affirm that attention is not accidental; it is shaped by certain conditions.
Factors of Attention
What Draws Attention? (Why Should I Listen?)
- Novelty: Something unexpected—a question, contrast, or pause.
- Relevance: A clear connection to the listener’s life.
- Clarity: A defined purpose—confusion quickly loses attention.
- Emotion: A sense of urgency, curiosity, or importance.
- Credibility: Trust in the speaker’s sincerity and integrity.
- Humor: Engaging, but only effective when meaningful and appropriate.
What Sustains Attention? (Why Should I Keep Listening?)
- Meaning and Purpose: People stay engaged when content matters.
- Structure: Clear organization reduces mental fatigue.
- Cognitive Simplicity: Avoid overwhelming the listener.
- Storytelling: Stories anchor truth and increase retention.
- Variation: Changes in tone, pace, volume, and delivery refresh attention.
- Participation: Engagement increases focus.
- Conviction: Passion and belief are contagious.
Attention may be captured by novelty and relevance, but it is sustained by meaning, clarity, structure, and conviction.
At an education convention, a workshop about attention deficit suggested that listening to music, doodling, or chewing gum helps students stay on task and pay attention.
Does it? The answer is simple: it depends on the person, the task, and how these tools are used. These are tools—not solutions. Their effectiveness depends on discipline.
1. Listening to Music
- Can help: during routine tasks, stress reduction
- Can hinder: when lyrics compete with thinking or studying
- Best practice: use instrumental music at low volume; avoid during deep thinking
2. Doodling
- Can help: while listening to prevent drifting attention
- Can hinder: when it becomes detailed or distracting
- Best practice: keep it simple and secondary
3. Chewing Gum
- Can help: improve alertness and reduce restlessness
- Can hinder: if distracting or inappropriate
- Best practice: use moderately and appropriately
How Do We Rebuild Attention? In addition to incorporating attention factors, we must be proactive and self-disciplined.
- Train Attention Like a Muscle.
Start with short focus periods (15–25 minutes) and build over time. - Remove Digital Temptations.
Control your environment—distance from distractions matters. - Set Clear Goals.
Specific tasks improve focus. - Practice Stillness.
“Be still, and know that I am God” (Psalm 46:10). - Build Healthy Habits.
Sleep, nutrition, and exercise directly affect focus. - Strengthen Deep Reading.
Reading builds sustained attention. - Embrace Quiet Moments.
Reduce constant stimulation. - Choose Focused Environments.
Surround yourself with disciplined people. - Remember Your Purpose.
“Work…as working for the Lord” (Colossians 3:23). - Be Consistent.
Growth takes time—faithfulness matters.
Closing Thoughts:
The battle for attention is ultimately a battle for the future. The topic of this article has taken on a life of its own. There are so many applications for getting and maintaining attention. We are surrounded by things and people that are demanding our attention. It is both a concern and a frustration to battle for people's attention. If you learn to focus in a distracted world, you will stand apart—and you will be far more useful to God and to others.
Additional Information for Parents: Give your children a safe online experience
The internet is not always safe. The right parental controls will ensure that your kids are protected from cyber-bullying, online predators, and dangerous websites.
Last summer in Nashville, TN, at a Spiders Softball Tournament, I met Ben Tracy while standing in line at the concessions. He has given his life to inform parents and teens of the dangers that lurk on the internet.
The information that he provides is current and extremely important to parents and teens. Since that chance meeting, we have been communicating via email for months. I highly recommend getting familiar with his purpose and organization. On his website, he provides pertinent resources and advice to parents to help protect their children.
Here is a link to his website. https://safesocialnetwork.com/ben-tracy
Eddie Riley
Eddie Riley is the ADMINISTRATOR, SENIOR BIBLE Instructor for Cross Lanes Christian School, and has served in this position since 2013. He has faithfully ministered in Christian Education for over 40 years at schools in NC, AZ, FL, VA, NJ, and WV. Eddie holds a BA in Bible from Bob Jones University, and M.Ed. from West Coast Baptist College